Beware of anyone who reveals their deepest dark on the first date or phone call. Anyone who on that first conversation tells you that their father never loved them, their mom is bi-polar, they are recovering from a near death experience or addiction, etc.
They don’t need a romantic partner, they kind of need therapy. And they kind of suck all the fun out of the room. (and last time I checked dating should be fun)
I am not saying that there is anything wrong with having collaborative experiences to work out an issue, being the sounding board for your significant other when things aren’t going well or need advice about something weighing on them/you. It is just when it starts out with them passing you a bag of heavy dark it will continue to be heavy dark until you feel heavy dark too.
Music:
I am thinking "Heaven knows I am miserable now" or "unloved" by the Smiths. Very heavy, very "woe is me"
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